Ruth(playworkeatrepeat)

Hi! I'm Ruth, thanks for stopping by. I love to share a little about what makes the everyday special.

Benefits Of Sandpit Play

There are so many benefits of sandpit play for children. It is not only fun and engaging it is also incredibly beneficial for children’s development. If you ask most of the children at preschool what activity they like the best, they will usually name the sandpit as their very favourite. Children just love scooping, digging, building sandcastles, mixing sand with water, and cooking. Sandpit play is such a fun open-ended activity that also promotes wonderful developmental benefits. Some of these benefits are Sensory Development Gross Motor Development Fine Motor Development Develops Social Skills Develops Creativity and Imaginary play Language Development Social and Emotional Sensory Development Children can explore their sense of touch by playing with sand. Additionally, they can also learn about important things like temperature. Children will be able to feel the warm sand that has been under the sun compared to cooler sand that has been under shade. Mixing sand together with water means that children are exploring different textures. Firstly they can discover that wet sand is incredibly sticky whereas dry sand will run through their fingers and feels very grainy. Gross Motor Development Movements such as digging, lifting, scooping, pushing, and pouring will give children’s large muscles a great workout. Their little bodies are being strengthened by all these movements. Children will also come to develop an awareness of their own bodies when they are engaged in the sandpit. They will work out how they can use their bodies to achieve certain tasks such as lifting heavy buckets of sand and tipping it over to make sandcastles. Fine Motor Development Children will find controlling a pencil and writing so much easier when they have well-developed fine motor skills. Sandpit play gives children an excellent opportunity to strengthen the smaller muscles in their fingers. Every time they dig with their fingers or manipulate wet sand to form shapes, they are actually increasing the strength in the smaller muscles found in their hands. Even doing little things like adding details such as small stones, gum nuts, or twigs to their creations means they are using their fine muscles. Develop Social Skills Playing in the sandpit is a perfect opportunity for children to develop their social skills. At preschool, we have found that sandpit cooking is a great activity that keeps kids focussed and engaged for a long time. So we provide the children with pots, pans, cooking utensils, and a play stove. The children have such an amazing time mixing the sand and water together to make everything from soups to cakes! While they are busy doing this, children are learning important skills about playing cooperatively. They are exchanging ideas and suggestions as well as learning to share and take turns. Develops Creativity and Imaginary Play Children really enjoy mixing sand and water. This is such a simple activity that is so beneficial when it comes to helping them develop their imaginations and creative thinking. Children can create new structures, find new ways to transport the sand around the sandpit. They can also think of new and exciting ways to use the sloppy sand and water they have so joyfully made. In the sandpit, kids are able to create freely. There is zero pressure to make anything that has a specific result. There is no right or wrong when it comes to sandpit creations. So children will feel a real sense of accomplishment and success no matter what they make in the sandpit. Language Development Children are often chatting with each other when they are busy playing in the sandpit. They might be talking about what they are building or cooking as well as exchanging their ideas. Sandpit play is a great time for educators or parents to jump on opportunities to help children increase their vocabulary. You can ask them questions about what they are doing or building. This is such a fantastic way to open up two-way conversations with kids. Interactions such as these while playing in a relaxed atmosphere such as the sandpit are so important. The reason for this is because it gives kids the perfect opportunity to improve their speech and language development. Social and Emotional One of the reasons why I love sandpit play for children so much is because it can even get the shyest kid to talk. Sometimes children struggle the first few days or even weeks when they start preschool. They are missing their parents and they really don’t know anybody yet. The sandpit will often be a place where they can relax. Children can become so engaged in what they are doing that they start to enjoy themselves. This will often lead them to feel safe enough to open up and start talking to their peers and educators. Final Thoughts Playing in the sandpit provides children with so many wonderful learning opportunities. They will be able to learn many important physical skills as well as social skills. Sandpit play gives children a full-body sensory experience as well as a place to socialize and play with their friends. I hope you have enjoyed reading about some of the benefits of sandpit play for children. One Last Thing If you would like to read about the benefits of playdough in early childhood you can find this here.

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How to Look Luxe

Looking luxe doesn’t mean you have to be rich or that you need to spend money on designer labels. You don’t need to follow fleeting trends or be flashy. Because luxe is not just about what you wear, it’s also about your frame of mind and how you present yourself. Here are 15 simple tips for how to look luxe. Nails One of the first ways to look really well put together is to make sure nails are neat and tidy. I don’t think they have to necessarily be long and salon manicured. They can look really nice if they are short, neat and healthy. Don’t ruin your beautiful outfit by neglecting your nails. If and when I do wear nail polish, which is not very often. I stick to neutral colours like nude. Nude is a safe colour choice as it will go well with any outfit. Remember to take your nail polish off before it starts to get chipped. Chipped nail polish is a big no-no if you want to look elegant. Makeup If you really want to look luxe consider going for understated makeup that will enhance your natural beauty. It’s a good idea to stick to natural tones. Even going super simple and wearing a bit of BB cream, bronzer and soft lipstick will lift your look and compliment your outfit. Keep Jewellery Simple It might be a good idea to go for less when it comes to jewellery and accessories in general. I like Coco Chanel’s famous saying “Once you’ve dressed, and before you leave the house, look in the mirror and take at least one thing off”. Simple stud earrings and a nice watch always look very sophisticated. There’s an accessory brand I like called mimco. They have a good range of simple pieces and you can often find some nice and more affordable pieces too if you wait for the sales. Go For Neutrals Wearing neutral colours will easily make an outfit look more expensive compared to other colours. Neutral colours are timeless, chic and sophisticated. One of the huge advantages of investing in good quality neutral coloured outfits is that they won’t go out of fashion. I’ve got a post full of neutral coloured outfit inspiration here. Simple Clean Lines Consider looking for clothes that are well cut with clean lines and flattering for your body shape. A Structured Handbag A structured and simple handbag will always look expensive. Try to stay away from backpacks and slouchy styles. Instead, maybe think about a minimal looking bag in a classic colour with not too much hardware. Lustre Have you noticed that ladies who look expensive usually look glossy and shiny? They have a lovely dewy complexion, healthy nails, and of course shiny hair! I have a friend like that and if someone asked me to describe her I would say she glows! Avoid Showing Too Much Modest dressing always looks classier. Keeping hemlines just above the knee is flattering and will make you look stylish. Stick to safe necklines such as round, V-neck, square or boat-shaped. Avoid anything plunging or low cut. Keep Clothes Free Of Wrinkles This is a simple thing you can do to elevate your look. Wrinkled clothing looks messy, so try and spend an extra couple of minutes making sure your clothes are wrinkle-free. Pulling out the iron and ironing board is always such a huge hassle especially when you are in a big hurry. I bought an inexpensive handheld steamer from Kmart last year and it’s made it so much easier when it comes to getting annoying wrinkles out of my clothes. Make Sure Your Shoes Are Clean Your whole outfit might scream luxe but unfortunately, if your shoes are dirty and scuffed it will bring your whole outfit down. Try and make sure your shoes are clean and well maintained even if it means a trip to the shoe repair shop. Wear Proper Underwear Avoid any underwear that shows lines under your smooth skirts and dresses. The same with bra straps, make sure they are out of sight. Avoid Tight-fitting Clothing Wearing flattering clothes that suit your body shape is the way to go if you want to look expensive. So this means staying away from clothes that are too tight. Don’t go to the other extreme and wear loosely fitting clothing either, just find clothes that are well fitted and comfortable. Wear Classic Styles Invest in classic garments and accessories that are stylish and classic. They never go out of fashion and they always make you look luxe. Crisp button-down white shirts, a cute black dress, pencil skirts, slim pants and a good pair of jeans will keep you well dressed and chic for decades. Tuck It In Tucking your tops in will give you an overall much more structured look. You can also add a simple belt to polish off your whole outfit. Wear A Smile It’s great to aim to look your very best, however it is also important to be kind, friendly and well mannered. You can wear your very best outfit and exude luxe but you will be much more beautiful if you remember your smile and kind manners!        

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It’s the weekend!

Hi everyone, happy Friday!!  Yes, It’s the weekend and isn’t that great?  Thank you so much for stopping by today and joining me for today’s Friday Favorites post. I’m super excited to share with you guys a few of my favorites for this week. 1 First up I have to tell you I’m not just excited that it’s the weekend, I’m also happy that it’s the end of term break! I’ve been off work this week and I’m off next week too. I have to say that the last term at preschool has been so strange with all the staff on a part-time roster and hardly any children attending. Normally everyone is really pumped for the holidays and the last Friday before term break is always a flurry of excitement. Not so this time, it was a very low-key end to the term. But being on holiday from work is definitely a huge favorite. 2 We made a scarecrow during the last week of preschool! My lovely teacher friend had a great idea to make a scarecrow! We have so many Ibis living in these huge palm trees right outside preschool. They are actually becoming a big problem but there is nothing we can do because Ibis are protected in  NSW. Not that we would want anything awful to happen to them. It would have just been good if our local council could have been able to relocate them to the wetlands, where they usually live. After many enquiries, our preschool has been told that there is nothing to be done about them. Our solution to the problem was to make a scarecrow!! Although I have a feeling that he is too friendly looking to scare anything or anyone. Ha!, what do you guys think? 3 Sam received his Year 12 jacket in the post. I really love the design and it fitted him so well. But seeing him wear it made me happy and super sad all at once. I’m actually feeling teary just writing about it now. How did the time go so fast?  It feels like just yesterday that he was at preschool with me. It feels like five minutes ago he was starting Kindergarten and now he’s going into his final year of school. Waaaaahhhhhhhhh!!!!!! 4  Being in lockdown for now nearly 14 weeks is not so bad, especially when kind friends bring you scones! I had another friend drop these yummy, soft, fluffy scones complete with whipped cream and strawberry jam. 5 I am both a tea drinker and a coffee drinker and I am yet to pick a side because I can’t love one more than the other.  The Moconna brand is my favorite when it comes to instant coffee. I tried this one for the first time, instead of the usual one I buy and I really enjoyed it.  It tastes creamy plus I liked the fact that I bought it for half price!! 6 Look what all the staff got on the last day of term! A beautiful bouquet of flowers for each one of us!! Our preschool’s parent committee arranged to have these delivered as a surprise. They wanted to say thank you for just having finished off a very challenging term due to Covid lockdown. What a lovely gesture!! I must say that the preschool where I work not only has great staff but we are also lucky to have such a kind and super supportive parent committee. 7 My kitty cat is always a favorite. Here she is meowing at me, she’s been very vocal lately. maybe she is excited that it’s spring just like the rest of us! I can see she is losing some fur all over the floor too. 8 I was tidying up my bathroom cabinet and I found this I forgot I had bought this hair mask a while ago. I’ve mentioned before how much I love the Argan oil shampoo from Aldi. Well, this Aldi hair mask is just brilliant! Leaves your hair even softer and feeling healthier. I can’t remember if this was a special buy or they always sell it. It’s been ages since I’ve shopped at Aldi. But I will return once lockdown is over. 9 I had to run to Woolworths to pick up my online grocery order and I got to wear a dress!! It was a little cool and windy but definitely dress weather. It was so good to get out of track pants and my old T-shirt. I don’t really like posting pictures of myself but I have to show you because I was so excited. 10 Look at this!! I am so excited about this! I know, I know it’s a little crazy because my kids are too old but Mumma is collecting! Every time you spend $30 at Woolworths you get a little bag with bricks to make a Woolworths supermarket. That’s right a mini supermarket made of bricks!! I even went out especially this morning to buy the walls. I’ve got big plans to put this together tonight! 11 I found a Kit Kat wrapper completely sealed with no Kit Kat inside. I didn’t know whether to laugh or be sad that I missed out on a piece of my favorite chocolate!! That’s ok the bag comes with 17 more pieces and it really was funny. At first, I thought Sam was playing a trick on me. We both had a good laugh when I showed him. That’s All For Now I’m sure you are all as happy as I am that it’s the weekend. Even during lockdown weekends are still special and Friday nights are great for relaxing with the family. Steve is at work till late so I’ll put my little bricks together then when he gets home we’ll probably watch an episode of Good Girls. Please take care, stay safe, and enjoy your weekend! Linking up with Andrea and Erika

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How To Pack A Sustainable Lunch Box

How to Pack a sustainable lunch box- There are many things to consider when packing your child’s lunch for preschool and school. Firstly, you want to pack something they will eat happily. Then, you also want to make sure that it’s nutritious and healthy. Plus it’s always nice if it is presented in a way that is appealing for your child. To add to this list there is also another very important issue. That is the importance of reducing plastic wrapping and packaging. Unfortunately over the many years of working at a preschool, I have seen some lunchboxes containing more plastic packaging than actual food! Recently the Government Of Western Australia conducted some research with astonishing results. They found that a child’s lunch box containing ordinary food items, pre-packaged food and snacks creates approximately 3 Kg of waste per child every year. That is an incredible amount of waste that is going to landfill!! However, there are many practical eco-friendly things we can do to reduce waste. And we need to remember that small changes can mean a big difference when it comes to looking after our precious earth. How To Pack A Sustainable Lunch Box So What Can We Do? The Lunch Box Lunch boxes are usually made from plastics. For the sake of the environment consider using sustainable products instead. There has been a huge explosion in the variety of lunch boxes available on the market. These days it’s quite easy to find lunch boxes made from stainless steel or bamboo. Both of these materials are a much better and healthier alternative to plastic. Bento Boxes Many children come to preschool with large, fancy, and super expensive bento boxes. While these can be a good idea, children don’t need to have these overwhelmingly big bento boxes. They really aren’t necessary and parents shouldn’t feel the need to fork out so much money for these. It seems that parents try and fill every one of the compartments with a different type of food. In our experience at preschool what ends up happening is this. The children feel so overwhelmed by the quantity and variety that it actually ends up turning them off their lunch and they don’t want to eat. We’ve had children in tears sitting there in front of these huge bento boxes. Please consider the size when you are purchasing your child’s box. Bento boxes can be easily and affordably found in department stores and supermarkets like Kmart, Big W, and Aldi Alternatives to Bento Boxes Of course, it’s not necessary to have a Bento box at all to pack a sustainable lunch box. You can easily use any lunch box and divide it up yourself. I have seen this done very effectively by using things like silicone patty pan cases. In order to reduce food waste, it’s also a really good idea to separate your child’s lunch from their morning tea or recess. So instead of having everything in one huge overwhelmingly scary lunch box, provide two smaller ones. This makes it so much easier for your child to manage and know what to eat. You can also use beeswax wraps and silicon or fabric snack bags. These are not only environmentally friendly but they are really a whole lot easier for little fingers to unwrap than the sticky plastic wrap. They don’t call it cling wrap for nothing!! Thermoses are also great to use and you can go to town with the delicious things you can give your child in a thermos. Think about those yummy leftovers that they can have for lunch the next day. Lunch Bags Remember to choose lunchboxes that can fit into an insulated lunch bag. By adding an icepack you will also ensure that your child’s food is maintained at a safe temperature. How To Save Money And Reduce Waste With The Foods You Purchase For Lunches When we go to the supermarket we are constantly bombarded with a huge variety of pre-packaged snacks. These snacks are usually covered in unnecessary plastic packaging that will ultimately end up in landfills. Have you taken the time to actually consider the cost of these convenient pre-packaged foods? Trust me, if you do you will be horrified. Take for example the cost of cheddar cheese. A 250-gram block of cheddar cheese costs around $4.00- that’s $1.50 per 100 grams. A pre-packaged cheese and crackers pack costs $1.60 that’s $3.20 per 100 grams. Interestingly, I have noticed that many children don’t even like the cheese in these pre-packaged snack packs. They will happily eat the crackers and yes you guessed it. THEY THROW THE CHEESE OUT! An individual yoghurt pouch costs $1.20 per 100 grams or a 900-gram tub costs 64 cents per 100 grams. Now if you are buying the occasional yoghurt that may not seem very significant. But if you are purchasing a pouch every single day per child for school lunches, this ends up costing you a significant amount over the course of the whole year. Now, this is just the cost to your pocket but think about the environmental cost when you add up all those millions of yoghurt pouches and lids being thrown out every day. I buy my snack foods in bulk sizes and package them myself into eco-friendly lunch boxes and containers. I save a lot of money doing it this way and I am also doing my part in reducing waste to help the environment. What To Pack It is incredibly important for children to develop healthy eating habits from a young age. There are so many negative health consequences from eating foods that are high in fat, sugar, salt, and additives. Children also need good healthy natural food that will fuel their bodies ensuring that they are ready to focus and learn. While children are at school or preschool, they are spending long periods of time away from home. It is so important that they are consuming nutritional foods. Foods such as fruit, vegetables,

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How To Make A Home Feel Cozy

Let’s look at 5 quick and simple tips for how to make a home feel cozy. It’s been cold again here in Sydney. We had a couple of weeks in August when it was unusually warm, hot even! September came with all the glorious promises of warmer weather and longer sunnier days. Then boom we got hit with some gloomy blustery weather. I can’t complain though, or rather I shouldn’t because Sydney really does dazzle with bright blue skies and sunny days even in winter. Back to Cooler Weather Since it went back to being cold I brought out our warm soft throw blankets for last night’s movie night with the family. We watched ‘In Bruges’ which was an interesting black comedy/drama, certainly didn’t leave me feeling warm and fuzzy but I did enjoy it and it was fun being with the family. I have also been lighting candles and went back to sipping lots of warm drinks. I think it’s usually around mid-October when we finally end up getting consistently warm weather. So for the last few days, the word cozy kept coming into my mind. I love a cozy home and feeling cozy, reading cozy books, and lighting cozy candles. The word cozy itself I guess sounds very cozy. I associate cozy with autumn and winter.  There is absolutely no desire to be cozy in the summer months here in Australia. It just gets so unbearably hot! The recent sharp snap back to winter weather has left me wanting to experience cozy all over again. I am happy to have a few more days of cooler weather so I can get snuggly and warm before the season ends. I also know that many of my friends live in the Northern hemisphere and they will soon be right into enjoying all the cozy things like warm socks, soft blankets, flannel sheets, and pumpkin spice! Ha!! I’m almost jealous. So How Do You Make A Home Feel Cozy? Thankfully it’s not that hard and it shouldn’t be expensive to create a cozy comfortable and inviting home. Most of the things we need we probably already own. Have a look at the things you might already have lying around and get creative. I have put together a list of 5 easy tips for creating a cozy home and I hope you find them helpful. 1. Good Lighting Is So Important I think that good lighting is probably the most important thing when it comes to creating a cozy home. Try and avoid any harsh single overhead lighting. Years ago we needed new lighting for our very old kitchen. We didn’t want to spend much money as we knew we wanted to renovate in the not too distant future. So we chose a cheap fluorescent lighting panel and I HATED it! Ugh!! every time I went into the kitchen I felt like I was walking into an operating theatre. My eyes hurt and it was just awful. Thankfully our kitchen is now renovated with beautiful under-cupboard lighting and much nicer and warmer downlights. So if you can, definitely try and stay well away from cold harsh lighting. Fairy Lights Fairy lights can be used in bedrooms and living rooms. This kind of pretty lighting makes rooms look so magical and inviting. Lamps Go for desk lamps, table, and floor lamps. They give off lovely warm lighting for your home. The bonus is that you can fit these with energy-saving light bulbs. This will hopefully also mean savings on your electricity bill. 2. Make Your Home Smell Nice There are so many ways to make your home smell nice. There are candles, melts, reed diffusers, and flowers just to name a few. Go ahead and find a scent that makes you happy. After trying so many different scents I have finally settled on French pear from Ecoya and bought both the reed diffusers and the candles. I really love the range of candles and diffusers that Ecoya has available. 3. Fresh Flowers Fresh cut flowers are just so beautiful and really lift the level of coziness in a home. I am lucky enough to have a whole lot of lavender growing just outside my front door. In the spring when it is in full bloom, I always make sure to cut some and display it in my favorite vase on my small entry table. 4. Greenery  Plants will instantly liven up any living space and I don’t think it really matters whether they are real or fake. I have a mixture of both in my home and I think they look great! There is now such a huge range of faux greenery that it’s almost hard to tell that it’s not real unless you get up really close. Sprinkling some greenery around your home using a variety of vases and pots makes a home look very inviting. 5. Art Work There are many affordable prints you can find at places like Kmart or Ikea. These can look really nice and add a lovely vibe to your living areas. You could even create your own! Bare walls can be pretty boring so try and find some artwork that you enjoy looking at. Choosing artwork for your home can also be a great way to add a touch of your own personality to your home. You don’t always have to buy it as you could even create your own! Having a favorite photo or poster framed also makes fun unique artwork for your home. Artwork for your walls doesn’t have to be limited to paintings or prints. Juju hats and wire wall art can make your home look very stylish, inviting, and cozy! I hope you enjoyed looking at some simple ways for how to make a home feel cozy and don’t forget, small changes can make a big difference to the level of coziness and comfort of your home. Have a look around, what things could you add or change? Have fun and enjoy making

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Making Friends

Making friends is one of the most rewarding experiences that can happen for children when they go to preschool. Having that one special friend or a group of friends makes the preschool years so much fun. I have to say that one of the nicest things about working with children is seeing them make friends over the course of the preschool year. I remember one particular sweet little girl who was yet to make a special friend. She had been coming to preschool for well over a year and her mum was a bit worried that she was yet to find a friend. Sure enough, she ended up being good friends with another little boy after playing a fun game of chasing. They played chasing for weeks and weeks until they were finally firm friends. These two had known each other for a long time. But it took that one game of chasing to form a connection. Interestingly, one of the most common questions I get asked by a parent after their child’s very first day at preschool is “Have they made any friends”. I get it, as a parent myself we all want our kids to form good fun friendships and be happy. What Do Children Need To Make Friends? However, forming friendships takes a whole lot longer than one day at preschool. To form friendships kids need Time Social Skills Good Role Models Children Need Time To Form Friendships Young children need time to learn what friendship is. They have to work out what it means to be and have a friend. Once they have an idea of the complexities of friendships, they then need time to cultivate and nurture these friendships. Just like we do. Even though we are adults, we still need time when it comes to making friends. Maybe it’s helpful to try and put ourselves in our preschoolers’ shoes. When we go to a social function where we may have never met one single person there before. Do we leave that function after one night with a best friend? Not usually. We may have clicked with some people more than others. We might have even made plans to catch up with these new potential friends. But we probably couldn’t really say “Hey I made a friend today” after just a few short hours. So why do we expect our children to? Children Need Social Skills To Make Friends As children play with others they will learn and build skills that will help them make friends now and in the future. They need to learn super important skills like sharing, turn-taking, listening to others, cooperating, and how to resolve conflict. That’s a lot of skills!! Not long ago PJ Masks was the big ‘thing’ at preschool. A lot of children were right into pretending to be the PJ Masks characters, running around fighting crime in the playground. But every day there were arguments because everyone wanted to be Catboy. I had no idea who this Catboy was because my own kids are much much older and I’m still stuck back in the late ’90s and early 2000’s when it comes to kids’ popular culture. Ask me anything Pokemon and I’m all over it. But Catboy ??? not at all. All I knew about him was that he was causing a big fuss in the playground for us. I had to google who this Catboy was. Anyway, my point is that not everyone could be Catboy. The kids had to learn to take turns being Catboy and they had to work it out with help and encouragement from the teachers. The kids had to be willing to negotiate and listen to the cries of unfairness from their peers at not being given a turn to be Catboy. They had to understand, show empathy and finally agree to take turns.  It’s hard to be friends with a bossyboots or children who don’t take turns, so learning skills such as these are so important. Good Role Models Parents are their children’s greatest role models. Children will learn and copy everything you say and do. It is so important to show children through your words and actions how to interact appropriately and how to treat others with kindness and respect. Parents and educators need to teach children the skills they need to make friends. This could be done by using puppets or toys to do role plays explaining and demonstrating skills such as listening, cooperating, and sharing. Have discussions with children about how to make friends. Suggest to them the language they can use if they want to play with someone. Teach them to say “Do you want to play?” sounds simple enough but often kids need to learn important phrases like these so they can initiate play with other children and eventually make friends. If kids don’t have the language necessary to get along with others and make friends they might sometimes do inappropriate things. I’ve seen kids shove other children as a way to get attention and hopefully get them to play with them. Unfortunately, this doesn’t work, kids need to learn what to say to other children if they want to play with them. But Why Does My Child Have No Friends? One of the reasons why you’re preschooler may not be forming friendships is simply because they may be too young. As adults, we have so many years of experience when it comes to the art of making friends. Yet a little preschooler is at the very beginning of their lifelong journey of forming friendships. They have yet to learn so many skills that will equip them to make friends. Sometimes kids might have all the necessary skills to make friends but still, you find that they struggle with forming friendships.  This is sometimes the case and a source of worry for parents. But we need to remember that all children are unique and different just as we adults are too. Different Personalities Some

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How To Dress For Your Age

How to dress for your age. Hmmmm. Sometimes, especially around my birthday, I find myself googling ” What to wear if you’re over___”. I then start to wonder if my tops might be too tight or if my shorts are the right length and the same with my skirts. Not that I am now or ever was into wearing anything short, too tight, or revealing. Even in my 20’s, I was always I guess you could say a conservative dresser. I was firmly brought up to “not dress like a crazy” as my mother would say. Aging As each year passes by, instead of whinging about getting older and my cheeks sliding down off my face. I am trying to be more thankful for aging and the fact that I get to celebrate another year of being alive. But with that being said, anybody who is close to me will tell you that I do a lot of whingeing with each approaching birthday, but I am trying to change! My super kind friend does helpful things to help me when I am carrying on about getting older. She sends me text messages with photos of gorgeous-looking celebrities who are my age. Last year I got photos of Jennifer Lopez and I instantly felt better! Thank you, lovely friend!! But what exactly is age-appropriate dressing? Sometimes age doesn’t have anything to do with how we should or should not dress. Because I tend to think some styles are just not really very flattering no matter how old you are! Things like wearing see-through leggings as pants. This is not a good look EVER!!  Or what about those super frayed teeny tiny short shorts. Unless you’re Daisy Duke, this is probably a very risky fashion choice. Aging itself can be challenging enough as it is. So to limit yourself when it comes to fashion is just downright depressing. Why should we be told that you shouldn’t wear this or that? But How exactly do we dress for our age? Maybe we need to cut ourselves some slack. Instead of just focussing on our age when it comes to how we dress. Maybe we can focus on other important things like body type, dressing for the occasion, and the quality of the clothes in our wardrobes. Body Type As we age our bodies change so it’s important to work out the cut and style of clothing that suits our body shape the best. It’s a good idea to find the style of clothes that actually flatter the shape of our bodies the most. Dressing For The Occasion It’s important to consider that what you are wearing suits the occasion. In addition, once you have worked out the fashion styles that work well for your body type it might also be worthwhile to look at whether or not your clothes compliment your lifestyle. Quality of Your Clothes It’s better to have quality rather than quantity when it comes to clothes. Stick to good quality basic pieces rather than having a wardrobe full of cheaper clothes that go out of fashion and don’t last long. Focus On Classic Style Instead Of Passing Trends I think it might be better to stop worrying about what exactly is age-appropriate fashion and instead focus on classic fashion style regardless of how old you are. Classic fashion is a style that will last for much longer than one season. It’s a style that will last for many years and you don’t have to worry about looking dated. I’m referring to a simple black dress, a classic white button-down shirt, or slim black pants. All these simple elegant pieces will be totally fashionable year after year. Maybe the safest way to incorporate trends into a wardrobe might be to accessorize using colors that are “in” rather than buying a whole outfit made up of that particular trending color. I remember many years ago hot pink was very ‘in’ for about one season. I was so relieved to have only bought a pair of hot pink slip-on shoes because sure enough as is the case with most trends, this one was very short-lived! Dress Confidently This I feel is the key! Once you know what suits you and you love it, wear it with confidence! Think of Iris Apfel, a fashion icon and interior decorator who is 100 years old. She has got such a fantastic bold style. She dresses in bright colors, loud patterns, and lots of accessories. Her style is not necessarily a style I would be comfortable wearing but she just looks amazing. Her wardrobe suits her and she wears it full of confidence. Another fashion icon who dresses beautifully and confidently is Anna Wintour. She is 71 years old and has served as Editor-in-chief of Vogue since 1988. Anna Wintour seems to steer very clear of passing fashion trends and has adopted her own signature style made up of elegant well-cut basic pieces with a bold dash of color and fun. Have Fun With Your Wardrobe When thinking about how to dress for your age, I think it is liberating to focus on what suits you the best instead of worrying about how old you are. Wear what makes you feel and look good and what makes you feel confident. Try and stay away from negative limiting advice that focuses on what you can’t or shouldn’t wear. Just have fun finding your own signature style. By doing this it won’t matter how old you are because you will always be wearing clothes that make you look and feel fantastic. One Last Thing If you would like to see some of my favorite outfits in neutral colors, click here.  

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My favorite Things

Twelve Favorite Things Hi all! So that you might get to know me better I thought it would be fun to share some of my favorite things for today’s Friday favorites post. My Favorite Food I have to start with my favorite food because food in general, is my favorite thing to dream, think and talk about. Oh, how I love Spaghetti Bolognaise, it is my absolute favorite. I could 100% have it for breakfast, lunch, and dinner and I’m not exaggerating. I even like the tinned version. Unfortunately, something went terribly wrong and NO ONE in my family shares my love for spaghetti, in fact, it’s at the bottom of the list for them. What is wrong with them, How are we even related ??? Now you might be thinking that this is because I cooked it too often but that is definitely not the case. I rarely make it because I know they don’t like (hate) it. Sigh! My Favorite Movie That would have to be ‘Volver’ with Penelope Cruz. I have watched this movie so many times I have lost count. I just love love love it. There is even have a framed poster of the movie in my living room. If you haven’t seen it, you definitely should. My Favorite Place to Go Mitchell Rd Antiques and Design Centre. This is a huge warehouse in Sydney and inside you can find a huge variety of independent stalls. In these stalls, you will find your childhood. It is full of things from all the decades. So much retro stuff like furniture, clothes, shoes, toys, and all the glorious 70’s home decor which I love to look at!! We go to Mitchell Rd Antiques sometimes on weekends and I could quite easily spend hours there but I don’t because I usually go with my husband. He likes it too but he can’t spend hours in there as I could. So as soon as lockdown is over this is where you will find me for the next three days. My Favorite Drink I love Bundaberg ginger beer. It has to be the Bundaberg brand, I’ve tried all the brands and this one is hands down the best! My Favorite flavor Strawberry!! I’m not a chocolate person, well I do like chocolate but not as a flavoring in milkshakes or ice cream. It’s strawberry all the way for me! My Favorite Thing To Do Dance, I love dancing. A couple of years ago I used to do Zumba and that’s where I got my weekly dancing fix. Sadly those days are over as the instructors finished their classes for good and moved on to do other things. I haven’t really looked around for any other classes near me but I might once things get back to normal. For now, my poor family just has to deal with me busting out some moves at home. Sorry guys! My Favorite thing to do With My Friend Shopping and High Tea- This is what I am so looking forward to once lockdown is over. My lovely friend and I are together on this and we are both excited. We’ve got big plans to hit the shops hard then enjoy High Tea at the Tea Rooms in The Queen Victoria Building like we did last year. The Queen Victoria Building is a beautiful old building in Sydney that was lovingly restored many years ago. I think there were plans to demolish it at one stage, but thankfully it got restored instead. Inside the QVB, as we call it you will find the most gorgeous designer shops as well as cafes, bars, and restaurants. It’s such a luxurious place to visit and at Christmas time they put up this huge tree that goes all the way from the last floor to the top of the third floor, smack in the middle of the building. Truly amazing. My friend and I had the best time chatting over High Tea the last time we went. We got served the most delicious dainty sandwiches, savory pastries, and scones with clotted cream. All this with our choice of tea served on the most exquisite china. So good!! I can’t wait to go back and this time I’ll make sure to take photos! My Favorite Comedy Show This would have to be Seinfeld. I have been a huge fan since the show started way back in the ’90s. I had just had my first son and we were home alone in the evenings as my husband worked night shifts.  After I had fed and bathed my little Luke I would put him to bed and be in time to catch Seinfeld on TV. I still laugh just as much now as I did then when I first watched it. Sometimes I use Seinfeld quotes in general conversation and I always know when I have found a Seinfeld fan. They get what I say. My favorite Comedy Drama Series Gilmore Girls- This is such a great show, I recently watched all the seasons and was so sad when it ended. Lorelai Gilmore always has me in stitches, she is just so funny and I really wish I could talk as fast as she does. I would also very much love to live in Stars Hollow. My Favorite Nail polish Color This would have to be Nude by Revlon. I hardly ever wear nail polish and if I do it’s usually in Summer. I do try other colors but I love nude the best. My Favorite Lipstick I was just thinking the other day that it has been months since I have even worn lipstick! I used to wear it every day but since we are in face masks all day every day and even at work. There is no chance or reason to wear lipstick. How sad, I can’t wait until life gets back to normal. I have enjoyed spending time at home during lockdown but now I need to get

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Pineapple Upside Down Cake

This year I made my mum a Pineapple Upside-down cake for her birthday and it was a great success! Happy 93rd Birthday Mum! Hi everyone hope you are all doing well. Thanks for stopping by today. It was my mum’s birthday yesterday and she turned 93! Yes Sir, 93 now that’s a big number. If she knew I had just revealed her age on this blog, I would be in big trouble. She actually looks very good, Mum has great skin and I really hope I look as good as she does when I’m 93!! My Mum has been living with us for about 7 years and she was always very mobile and independent up until about 3 years ago. Unfortunately, she had a few falls and age finally caught up with her so now she gets around using a walker. Reminiscing About Last Years Celebration Last year we had the whole family over for a little celebration, but this year things were a lot different. We are currently in week 12 of lockdown and still have many more weeks left to go. I think maybe mid-October restrictions might be lifted if we get our vaccination rate up to 70%. Anyway, lockdown this year meant it was just us celebrating my mum’s birthday. By us I mean myself, my husband Steve, and Sam our 16 soon to be 17 years old son. The Pineapple Cake I made some of Mum’s favorite dishes for dinner and instead of a traditional birthday cake, I made her a pineapple upside-down cake. Mum doesn’t like creamy cakes anyway, so this was just right. Whenever I see a pineapple upside-down cake it takes me back to my childhood. They were hugely popular back then and if my mum wanted to impress, that’s what she would bake. I make mine from scratch but I have to tell you something funny, I grew up thinking that the only way you could make a cake was if it came out of a boxed packet mix. My mum used to cook like a champ and all her food was always so delicious and lovingly made. But when it came to cakes and biscuits, they were either store-bought or from a packet mix. Mum even made the pineapple cake using the packet mix and I must say it still tasted really good!! Ikea Measuring Spoons While I was making the cake yesterday, I found myself thinking that packet mix might be the way to go! I love all things Ikea, but earlier this year I bought a set of measuring spoons from Ikea without realizing that they are all in Decilitres. WHAT??? They are marked with DL. I had never even heard of a decilitre before so I had to quickly google ‘what is DL on my measuring spoons’. Turns out there are a bunch of angry DL measuring spoon owners out there on the internet and they’re all mad at Ikea. I am going to invest in another set of measuring spoons soon because every time I bake I have to do maths measurement conversions. Let me tell you something about myself I HATE MATHS, like with a passion. Numbers are up there with clowns for me. I’m scared of both of them. A Quiet But Fun Birthday Dinner Anyway, we did have a nice dinner together even though we ate super late. We waited for Steve to get home from work. Normally we wouldn’t have waited but none of us had anywhere to go the next day. We knew we could afford to stay up late and sleep in if we needed to. Mum was very happy with the cake, she said it tasted delicious, so that was good. Instead of the usual glacé cherries, I used walnuts to decorate instead. I don’t think the cake looked as pretty as it does with the glacé cherries but we all prefer the taste of walnuts. Sam said he liked it too but for his birthday in October, he would like a Pavlova. Following in my Mum’s excellent baking tradition, I will be BUYING the pavlova base from the supermarket and decorating it. Done and done!!   Recipe for Pineapple Upside Down Cake Ingredients For the topping 50 grams melted butter 50 grams brown sugar 7 pineapple rings Glace cherries or walnuts For the cake 100 grams softened butter 100grams caster sugar 100grams self-raising flour 1 teaspoon baking powder 1 teaspoon vanilla extract 2 eggs 2 tablespoons pineapple juice from the tin of pineapples Method Preheat oven to 180C/160C fan Grease and line a round cake tin with baking paper pour melted butter into the prepared cake tin making sure it is spread evenly sprinkle brown sugar evenly Arrange pineapple rings and place glacé cherries or walnuts in the center of pineapple rings. Set aside Place softened butter, caster sugar, self-raising flour, baking powder, vanilla, eggs, pineapple juice in a bowl. Beat until it’s soft using an electric mixer. Spoon cake mix on top of the prepared cake tin. Make sure to smooth it out evenly. Bake for 45-50 minutes. The cake is done when a skewer comes out clean One Last Thing If you are looking for something sweet but healthy you can find my recipe for healthy banana bread here.  

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Good Habits For Staying Organized

Hi All, Let’s jump in and look at good habits for staying organized. On Wednesdays, I like to talk about cleaning and organizing so I thought it might be fun to look at a couple of habits that will make life easier. It’s incredibly helpful to try and incorporate some organizing habits into your day-to-day. This will hopefully mean that keeping your home organized will be much easier. If you get into some good habits, keeping your home tidy will feel much more achievable and less like hard work. I wanted to focus on a couple of simple habits that will hopefully, with time and practice become like second nature. You won’t even have to think about ‘doing’ certain tasks. They will be things you do automatically as part of your daily routine. Here Are a Couple Of Good Habits For Staying Organized Tidy as you go Whenever anything is out of place, I’ll just take a few seconds and put it back where it belongs. If I open a cupboard or drawer and find some things that need fixing, I’ll go ahead and do it real quick. The same goes for wardrobes and drawers. If something needs to be folded or hung up properly I’ll try and take care of it as soon as I spot it. This is such a great habit and I think I picked it up from a friend a long time ago. I would have to say that she probably has the neatest house in the world. I had just recently had my first son and so had she. Our boys were about two months apart in age. I spent quite a bit of time at her place back then. One thing I noticed was that she would just tidy up as she went about her day. No big deal, she just did it! Well at the time my house was a disaster (cringe). I didn’t enjoy leaving her house and going back to mine, opening the door and seeing the mess. So over time, I made a point of making sure I tidied things up as soon as I saw that they needed doing. And now it’s just a habit. Thank you, tidy friend!! Tidying up as you go means that what may start out as a small mess doesn’t end up becoming a huge organizing nightmare. One or two things out of place quickly multiply into more and more. So it’s a great habit to get on top of things when it’s still only a small task. Finish Things Off Nothing frustrates me more than when I don’t finish what I’m doing before I move on to the next thing. Going back to find I still need to address the previous task exasperates me. Whenever I am working on something say for example folding the neverending laundry. I will really try to make sure I put it away immediately. If I leave it on my bed, which is where I do my folding, It stays there. I know this because I have been guilty of it. Coming back into the bedroom to find piles of folded laundry, no matter how neat those piles are. Is still very frustrating!! Another example of finishing things off in my day is to make sure the kitchen is clean and tidy after dinner. This means that the dishwasher is on, the counters are clean and everything is packed away. This is an area where the whole family can help out before they each run away to their rooms!! Once all this is done then I can sit down and really relax. The same applies to the lounge room. It only takes a few seconds to tidy up the pillows and throws at the end of the day, but it makes a huge difference to the tidiness of the whole room. I wish I could confidently say that my home is super tidy all the time. But life happens and so there are times when things just pile up or drawers and cupboards get neglected and get stuffed with clutter. Having good habits for staying organized does mean that it will take less time to address the things that might have started to pile up. Get Rid of The To-Do List and Just Get On With It! Years ago I used to like making to-do lists. But I found that they didn’t really work for me. Very rarely did I get to cross everything off the list and that left me feeling all annoyed! Now I might quickly write things down that I need to remember but I don’t write long lists. I think having good daily organization habits means there is no real reason to have a long to-do list. Good habits should mean that household tasks are getting done routinely and consistently. It Takes Time To Build Up Habits So Be Kind To Yourself Building a new habit takes time and effort. Start small like, for example, you could get into the habit of making your bed every day. Once this becomes second nature you can move on to other tasks until they too become a daily habit. Remember that if things don’t get done, it’s ok there’s always tomorrow. Just try and be consistent until it is part of your daily routine. Having a couple of simple consistent good habits for staying organized like tidying up as you go and finishing off tasks is the answer to staying organized.  I think organizational habits are really the answer to a peaceful, tidy, and clutter-free home. One Last Thing If you would like to read about some tips for a clean and tidy home. You can find them here.  

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